Your health matters. No judgement. Ever.
Whether you’re gay, bi, trans, questioning, or just want some straight-up advice – we’ve got you. This page is for every lad in the community.
This page provides general information only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment.
Everything shared with our support team is completely confidential. You can talk to us one-to-one or in a group chat – whatever feels right. We’re open-minded, non-judgemental, and here to listen.
Sexual health topics for gay & trans lads
From STIs and PrEP to erections and testosterone – no question is too embarrassing. If it’s bothering you, it matters.
PrEP is a daily tablet that can prevent HIV. It’s available free on the NHS and is highly effective when taken correctly. Not sure if it’s right for you? Come and have a chat with us.
HIV PreventionHIV is not the death sentence it once was. With modern treatment, people living with HIV can have a completely normal life expectancy and be unable to pass the virus on (U=U).
HIV & TreatmentChlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis, herpes, HPV — most STIs are easily treatable when caught early, and many have no symptoms at all. Regular testing is the single best thing you can do.
Testing & TreatmentWeaker erections or reduced sex drive — especially in men over 30 — are incredibly common and usually very treatable. Low testosterone, stress, and lifestyle can all play a role. You’re not alone in this.
Men’s HealthHRT, sexual health whilst transitioning, navigating services as a trans person — these are things we can talk through together and point you to the right services.
Trans WellbeingSpots, discolouration, or unusual changes to your penis or testicles — always worth getting checked. Most of the time it’s nothing, but catching things early makes a real difference.
Physical HealthAnxiety, shame, and low self-esteem can all affect your sex life. Your mental and sexual health are deeply connected — if you’re struggling with either, talking about it is always the right first step.
WellbeingNavigating new relationships, talking openly with partners about sexual health, and disclosing your HIV status — these are skills every lad deserves support with.
RelationshipsTesting is quick, easy & mostly painless
Most tests are done via a simple urine sample or blood test — no uncomfortable swabs needed in most cases.
🧪 Urine Tests
- Chlamydia – results in around 2 days
- Gonorrhoea – results in around 2 days
- No swabs required for these tests
- Available at a clinic, GP, or via a home kit
🩸 Blood Tests
- HIV – accurate from 4–6 weeks after exposure
- Syphilis – detected via blood test
- Hepatitis B & C
- Testosterone levels (if concerned about low T)
📦 Home Testing Kits
- Free HIV home test kits available in many areas
- SH:24 offer free postal STI test kits online
- Discreet packaging — tested at home
- Results via text or online — no waiting rooms
📅 How Often Should I Test?
- At least once a year if you’re sexually active
- Every 3 months if you have multiple partners
- Before and after a new partner
- After unprotected sex when you’re unsure
Questions lads actually ask
No stupid questions here, lads.
Violence & abuse can happen to any lad 🆘
Domestic abuse, verbal abuse, sexual violence, and coercive control affect men too. It’s not weakness to reach out.
- Men’s Advice Line – 📞 0808 801 0327
- Helpline for men experiencing or impacted by domestic abuse. Run by Respect.
- National LGBT Domestic Abuse helpline – 📞 0800 999 5428
- Helpline for LGBT+ Victims and Survivors of Abuse and Violence. Run by Galop.
Not ready to go to a clinic yet?
Come and talk to us first. 💬
Our support team are real lads who get it. Message us for a completely private, one-to-one chat — no judgement, no pressure, just support. We can also help find the right contact numbers for your situation.
Where to get professional help
Trusted UK services that can support you directly.
🤲 Domestic Abuse helpline
Helpline for LGBT+ Victims and Survivors of Abuse and Violence.
0800 999 5428This page provides general information only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment.
